We arrived on the western coast of the island-nation of
Early in the morning on day 1, Japanese custom officers boarded the ship for the first display of superior Japanese technology. Every passenger- students, life long learners, faculty, and staff ,had to have their temperature taken prior to entering the country. Normally this would take an extremely long time; however, customs simply brought an infrared camera up to the faculty staff lounge, and one-by-one, we walked right in front of it. It could sense our temperature, and alert officials if it was too high.
I was allowed to disembark the ship first, since I was part of SAS’s famous “Kobe Homestay” program. This is consistently one of the highest rated programs on every voyage it appears, and I understand why. There were only 35 spots, and I was lucky enough to get one of them. After clearing customs, the 35 of us went to the lower level of the port terminal and waited for our homestay families. All at once, a large group of Japanese families entered, and formed a circle, unfurling signs with “WELCOME <NAME>.” I looked around, searching for my name, and found it, written in typical Japenese style: “Konichiwa Lessans Gregory!”
And there my family was: Mama Naori, and the 4 kids, 3 boys and the most beautiful little girl I have ever seen. Tatsuhiro was 11, Matsahiro was 9, Akihiro was 6 and cute little Ayano was 4. Naori spoke broken English, but was so happy to have me. Her kids were shy at first, but as soon as I picked up Akihiro and put him on my shoulders, that was it. They were in love, and I was a camp counselor/ jungle gym for the next 48 hours. We played games in the terminal with all of the families, and they taught us different dances and sayings before we all went our separate ways. Me and my family went into the garage into the big family van and headed to their home about a half-hour away.
The first thing I noticed was how distinctly Japanese Japan was. It sounds silly, but in so many countries that I have traveled, many facets of culture are reminiscent of home in the
When I got to the house, I walked in, and all of a sudden, everyone started screaming. I stopped dead in my tracks, unable to figure out what the hell was going on. Naori pointed at my shoes- I forgot to take them off! You NEVER wear shoes inside ANYWHERE in
After we dropped my stuff off ,we went to the grocery store where we bought boxed lunches and drinks, and then headed to the local park to play out in the sunshine for the entire afternoon. There, we sat and ate on the grass under the cherry blossoms, and met up with 2 other homestay families. We shared, in broken English where we lived, what we thought of
That night, a few of the homestay families got together to have one big dinner for a few of us. We made Okonomiake, a delicious meat-pancake, and tons of other types of food. I ate until I couldn’t eat anymore, and was then surprised when the man of the house came in and yelled, “OKAY! TALENT SHOW!!!” to the roaring applause of the 20 other people there. I was forced to do something, so I whipped out some magic tricks for the much-loving Japanese crowd. We were the center of attention, it was great.
Now. Before I continue, I have to fill you in on something. Before we get to each port here on Semester At Sea, our field office distributes special “port information pamphlets.” These spiral binders are great things to read before entering the destination country, and have all types of information; currency, customs, greetings, handshakes, electricity- basically anything you need to know BEFORE you arrive. As usual, I found myself reading this pamphlet on
Back to the story. At about 10 pm, home safe and sound, Naori approaches me and says: “okay Gregory, you take bath first!” All of a sudden, my time reading that pamphlet came flying back to me. WHAT DID IT SAY!?!? I couldn’t remember a word, I wished I had finished that paragraph. I run upstairs and look in. Sure enough, there’s a tub with green water, a nozzle, a shower above it, and 3 or 4 bowls on the ground. There are knobs and dials that I have never seen. ‘SHIT!’ I think to myself. I look at Matsahiro, the 9 year old, who senses my confusion. I shrug, as if to indicate “what do I do?” He laughs at me. No dice. Finally, the solution comes to me: I run back downstairs and grab my laptop. I practically throw the 6 year old across the room to access the internet cable which I plug into the side of my laptop. www.google.com. Search: Japanese Style
Ahhhhh. Revelation. There, listed in 10 easy steps on WikiHow.com, is a full description of what to do. I read the list, now relaxing from my panic attack, quiz myself, and then go upstairs and enjoy one of the most luxurious baths I’ve ever had! In case you’re wondering, the process involves soaking, washing, soaking, rinsing, soaking, washing, rinsing again, all with different parts of the shower and bath. Once I got the hang of it, it was great.
The next day was spent with the homestay family, eating, relaxing, and trying on kimonos at their friend’s house ( I looked goo-ood). By the time 5pm rolled around, and it was time to drop me off at the ship, we all had tears in our eyes. In just 2 days, I had become very close to all of the kids and they were reluctant to let me leave. They watched as I got on the ship, and then I ran up to the 5th deck (the lifeboat deck) and reached over the side yelling “sayonara!!” Finally they turned and headed toward the car. It was an experience I’ll never forget.
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Back on the ship, I had to move on from my homestay experience quickly. The ship was sailing at 2100 hours (9 PM) from
We hopped a small monorail from the port terminal to Sanomyia Station in
After we arrived, we dedicated a few minutes to procuring food and drinks for the night before searching for the hostel shy of the midnight curfew. We accomplished all 3, but barely made it to the hostel in time. We checked in at 11:45 by a pleasant non-English speaking Japanese woman who accidentally demonstrated her flatulent ability while we were standing in the lobby. She took us upstairs- and it was as traditional as it gets. A room with a straw-mat floor and 6 rolled-up futons. We stayed up late laughing, talking and sipping on Kirin Japanese beer, and then fell asleep- with the ship off the coast sailing north a few hundred miles away.
We awoke early the next day and nabbed a street-car to the
What followed was one of the most influential days of the voyage, and probably my life. What I found in
Most startling, however, was the message employed by the people of
What we found was completely the opposite. There was no animosity. There was no anger. There was no demand for repercussion. There was no blame. In fact, the Japanese actually accepted some of the blame, calling the bomb “ a result of misguided Japanese imperialistic policies.”
The entire park, the entire city, is just devoted to peace. Instead of asking why the bomb went off, they spend every ounce of their energy asking, how can we be sure it will never happen again. From the A-Bomb dome, one of the few remaining buildings from before the blast to the Cenotaph monument with the names of all 140,000 victims of the blast, to the eternal flame, which will remain lit until “all nuclear weapons are extinguished from the earth.” The museum was heart-wrenching and factual, and spent all of the time about the education of the damage that nuclear weapons can inflict on people. Normal people. Like the ones walking to work or to school in
My time in
We remained in
As I left
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Catherine, Tessa, Nancy, Nate, Chazz and I arrived by train to
Our night out was great. We met up with some other SASers, and ended up eating and walking around the nightlife district of Roppongi, before getting a Karaoke room until 5 AM. This is a common way to get a cheap hotel room, and a few of the girls who didn’t have a place to stay just slept in the Karaoke room before being kicked out when the place “closed” at 5 in the morning. This of course came after we sang our tails off… which was quite a sight to see.
The rest of us with a capsule went back to the place and crashed for the night.
In the morning of day 4, I met up with Kara, and together with a few others, we toured through downtown
That night, after relaxing for awhile in a coffee bar, Kara and I met up with 25 other Jewish SASers for an evening I’ll never forget. It was the 2nd night of Passover, and the Tokyo JCC decided to invite us to come to their Seder, held in the American Embassy. The Jewish community was made up of some of the nicest people ever, who were so interested in our journey and the differences between our observance and theirs. Among native Japanese Jews, there were those who emigrated from the
The final day, I layed low. Having accomplished more in 4 days than I had in most any other country, Jill, Caroline and I hung around
My time in
Most importantly, though, were the people. I have NEVER met friendlier, more eager to help people in my life. Through language and cultural barriers alike, their obsession for respect and responsibility shines through. All you had to do is look confused in public, and somebody would come up to you and help. And I’m not kidding. It’s that real.
I’m truly privileged for having spent my time in
Greg
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